Meet Your Coach


Veronica Sutherland-Ocnacuwenga is a Christian marriage coach, speaker, and author helping couples conquer the hidden fears that divide their relationship. With over 39 years of marriage and 45 years in family life education, she equips couples with biblical strategies to build emotional safety, communicate with grace, and reconnect spiritually. Her course No More Hiding: Conquering the Fears That Divide Marriages empowers couples to love with faith, not fear.

Does this sound familiar?

  • You walk on eggshells to avoid conflict.
  • You feel emotionally distant — even though you still love each other.
  • You’re stuck in the same arguments, or worse… silence.
  • You want a God-centered marriage, but fear keeps getting in the way.

If so, No More Hiding was created with you in mind.

Imagine this instead...


  • You feel safe to be honest without fear of being judged or misunderstood.
  • You communicate openly, even about the hard things.
  • You and your spouse pray together with clarity and purpose.
  • You’re no longer reacting out of fear — you’re responding with grace.

You feel emotionally and spiritually aligned as a team.

What You’ll Learn:

The 5 hidden fears that divide couples (and how to overcome them)

How fear shows up as silence, control, or withdrawal — and how to break the cycle

How to create emotional safety and rebuild trust

How to pray through fear together and build a stronger faith foundation




What’s Included:


  • 5 easy-to-watch video sessions (approx. 15 minutes each)
  • Printable workbook with journaling prompts, discussion guides, and prayers
  • Lifetime access + replay anytime
  • Bonus: A declaration page to affirm your commitment to a fear-free, faith-filled marriage
  • Pre-Order Bonus: 5 Fear-Breaking Conversation Starters for Deeper Connections



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You’ll Walk Away With:


Clarity on what's really causing disconnection in your marriage
Confidence to have the conversations you've been avoiding
Tools to replace fear with faith in your day-to-day interactions
A renewed emotional and spiritual connection with your spouse